Terri Kozlowski
Always Moving Forward
Always Moving Forward
Everyone has heard it: write your goals if you want to achieve them.
At first glance, it sounds too simple, almost cliché. But there’s deep neuroscience and spiritual truth woven into this advice. When you write down a desire, intention, or objective, you are doing more than making a list. You’re activating both hemispheres of the brain, signaling to your nervous system that this vision matters, and anchoring it into your subconscious mind.
Writing your goals bridges the gap between thought and embodiment, between the dreamer and the empowered soul who knows she is worthy of the life she imagines.
Setting goals that actually lead to success requires more than motivation or discipline — it begins with awareness. Before we can create goals that align with who we truly are, we must understand the beliefs, fears, and conditioning that shape our choices. This process is explored deeply in Overcoming Limiting Beliefs, a Comprehensive Guide, which lays the foundation for intentional and sustainable growth.
In January 2019, I wrote down my goals for the first time with true intentionality. Not typed. Not casually listed in a journal I’d later misplace. I wrote them down, placed them on my desk, and looked at them every day. I didn’t know it then, but this simple act became a turning point in my life, my healing, my writing career, and even the birth of Kozmic Soul Solutions.
I want to share that story and show you how writing your goals with clarity and soul-led intention can reshape your entire year, too.
The moment you write a goal, you give your dreams a place to land. ~ Terri Kozlowski
For decades, researchers in human behavior, psychology, and neuroscience have studied the connection between writing and goal achievement. The findings are remarkable:
Spiritually, writing your goals also does something profound: It aligns your energy.
When you write your intentions, you declare to the Universe, and to your future self, that you are ready to step into who you are becoming. You shift from hoping to choosing.
Therefore, this practice is so powerful for people who are awakening, healing, and reclaiming their authentic selves, something I talk about often on the Soul Solutions Podcast.
If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy, and inspires your hopes. ~ Andrew Carnegie
Here were my nine simple goals:
On paper, the list was simple. But the truth was… many of these were things I struggled to do consistently.
And yet… writing these goals down changed everything.
All who have accomplished great things have had a great aim. ~ Orison Swett Marden
I didn’t just meditate daily; I took part in three 21-Day Meditation Challenges with Deepak Chopra and Oprah Winfrey. Meditation grounded my mornings, softened my reactivity, and opened space for clarity and intuition to guide my choices throughout the year.
I journaled 364 out of 365 days. That missing day? A mystery lost to history, but the transformation remained. Journaling not only helped me feel emotionally lighter, but it also helped me articulate my fears, my hopes, my healing, and my dreams. Journaling is one of the core practices I teach in my courses and coaching because it shifts your internal narrative.
This was the hardest to measure, but the most transformative. I learned to speak boldly, to share honestly, to stop worrying about the opinions of others, and to show up as me, without shrinking, pleasing, or masking. Authenticity is a personal revolution, and it became the foundation for the Soul Solutions brand and my coaching work.
I read 357 days of the year and completed 67 books, plus another 1.1 million words in the Pocket app. Reading expanded my consciousness, deepened my writing, and reminded me of the power of story.
I upheld my commitment to write weekly, publishing 52 articles, many of which remain among the most-read on my blog today. I also wrote for local publications, strengthening my identity as a writer and storyteller committed to helping others awaken awareness.
Finishing my memoir was the big one. I worried I wouldn’t complete it because I paused for two months to write the book proposal. But NaNoWriMo became the ignition I needed. I wrote six chapters in 30 days, added another in December, and the first draft was done. That book eventually became Raven Transcending Fear.
I painted seven paintings, created craft projects with my granddaughter, and nurtured creativity as nourishment for my soul. Creativity is one way to reconnect with joy.
I took courses in SEO, social media, copywriting, coaching, and personal growth. I became a certified life coach, expanding the tools I offer my community.
Mentoring happened organically each quarter, reminding me that leadership is often lived quietly, in everyday conversations, supporting another’s journey.
By recording your dreams and goals on paper, you set in motion the process of becoming the person you most want to be. ~ Mark Victor Hansen
Goals aren’t just tasks. They’re invitations. When you identify what you want, more happiness, more health, more clarity, more abundance, more connection, you clarify what matters most to your soul. Here’s how to create meaningful, soul-aligned goals:
Don’t choose goals based on what you think you “should” do. Choose what your heart desires. If you hate reading, don’t force yourself to read 12 books. If you love walking outdoors, don’t commit to a gym routine. Choose what energizes you, not what drains you.
You don’t need complicated systems. You need clarity.
Examples:
Your goals should be measurable so you can celebrate progress, not guess at it.
Somewhere, you will see them every single day. On your desk. On your bathroom mirror. Inside your planner. On your nightstand. Visibility builds accountability.
Goals are guides, not prisons. Life changes. Seasons shift. Your priorities evolve. Allow your goals to grow with you.
Our goals can only be reached through a plan in which we must fervently believe. ~ Pablo Picasso
Here were my goals for the following year:
These weren’t just goals. They were declarations of who I was becoming.
Several of these have since become pillars of Kozmic Soul Solutions:
✔ The Soul Solutions Podcast, which now has over 200 episodes
✔ The Soul Solutions YouTube channel
✔ And the Soul Solutions blog, with almost 300 articles
✔ Coaching programs
✔ The Warriors Membership (coming soon)
Writing goals strengthens your identity.
A goal without a plan is just a wish. ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
To achieve your goals, you must schedule them. Your planner is your ally. Your calendar is your accountability partner. And your habits are the bridge between intention and achievement.
Example: Publishing my memoir
Monthly steps prevent overwhelm and ensure momentum.
I drew a simple habit tracker in my weekly planner:
Each checkmark reinforced my sense of progress.
An affirmation opens the door. It’s a beginning point on the path to change. ~ Louise Hay
Affirmations are powerful because they rewire your subconscious mind. Your subconscious does not analyze; it accepts.
When you repeatedly affirm:
Your brain begins to act in alignment with these truths.
Why affirmations work:
Write personalized affirmations such as:
Say them each morning as a sacred ritual.
All successful people have a goal. ~ Norman Vincent Peale
Take a few minutes to reflect:
✨ Who are you becoming?
✨ What do you want your life to feel like in the next year?
✨ What habits would elevate your well-being?
✨ And what goals would help you grow into the next version of yourself?
To support you, I’ve created:
✔ A 21-Questions to Extraordinary Goal Setting Worksheet
✔ My Goals Printable
You can download them on my website:
👉 https://marvelous-producer-7346.ck.page/2064e28931
If you want deeper support, coaching, or accountability in creating your soul-aligned year, I’d love to talk. Together, we can create an action plan that aligns your goals with your authenticity, your healing journey, and your inner wisdom.
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